emotional abuse

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Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship And What You Can Do

By MySahana on 16 Sep 2014

Some relationships, whether they be parent-child, spouse, sibling or friendships, can be emotionally abusive in nature. An emotionally abusive relationship is more than just a collection of emotionally abusive behaviors. In an emotionally abusive relationship, one person consistently controls the other through fear, humiliation, manipulation, fear or shame.